The so much love behind every “I hate you”…

Posted: August 21, 2010 in communication, Emotions, evaluation, happiness, Love, Randoms, Story, Weirdness

There’s always a little truth behind every “just kidding”.
A little knowledge behind every “I don’t know”
A little emotion behind every “I don’t care”
And a little pain behind every “it’s okay”

That was a friend’s Facebook status that I really liked, and I felt like adding a bit to it:

… and so much love behind every “I hate you” 😉

Then came the argument between Me and another friend, Omar.  Never knew my line was very controversial xD

And here it goes:

Omar: With all do respect but “hate” is a big word tht cant possibly have any love behind

Me: Nope, there is! You’d tell someone who has hurt or disappointed you “I hate you” because you do care about ’em/ ‘er so much but sadly he/she ‘s never been up to ur expectations.
You love ’em, but wont really praise em for being a bummer, so you SAY you hate ’em, but do u?

And there goes the so much “love” behind every “I hate you” 😀

Omar: hehe logical enough … but i would go for somethin other than hate somethin “smaller”
hmm… i dislike u with passion .. or maybe i dont appreciate ur existance, nd so on 😛

Me: Yeah, The phrasing depends on how much disappointment one feels lol xD

Omar: thts right to some extent 😀
using “hate” means ur really disappointed nd there can be no love behind such disappointment (ill understand if u didnt reply this time xD )

Me: well, being really disappointed doesn’t mean that there’s no love.
You wouldn’t really care, thus be disappointed, if u didn’t love that person much 😛
there’s always a second chance for that person to make it right and b worth the love 😀

(PS: I’ve always got a fresh reply to every argument lol :P)

Omar: hahaha (Y)
well… love comes first nd then comes the great disappointment nd if the disappointment is worth a “hate u” then this means goodbye love 😛
If u believe in a second chance then…. maybe just maybe it will be a way of gettin bak the love tht already faded 😀

Me: Yeah, true that! Seems like we’ve finally found something the two of us agree on xD

And it seemed that such argument would last forever. Whenever it comes to “Love”, there’s always a gazillion arguments. And they’re always, always controversial!!

But what I really like about this argument is that it would still make sense if we swap the Love and Hate:

… And so much hate behind every ” I Love You” !!


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